Discovering Your Purpose: The Path to a Meaningful Life

Purpose is one of those tricky and sticky things that people struggle with for most of their lives.

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You know it’s important to know, but it feels most like a mystery that other people have, and wonder, will you ever truly know yours?


Let’s take a step back in time with purpose and how purpose has been viewed.


The Stoics believed that the ultimate goal of life was to live in accordance with nature and reason. They believed that by understanding the natural order of things and aligning our actions with it, we could achieve fulfilment. Living in the present moment and appreciating whatever happens as part of the natural order.


Plato believed that the ultimate goal of life was to achieve knowledge of the eternal and unchanging truths that underlie the physical world. He believed that by gaining knowledge, we could transcend the world of appearances and arrive at a higher understanding of reality.


Aristotle believed that the ultimate goal of life was to achieve eudaimonia, or human flourishing. He believed that this could be achieved by living a virtuous life, in which one develops and exercises virtues such as courage, wisdom, and justice. Aristotle also believed that finding one’s purpose in life was closely tied to your unique talents and abilities and that each person had a distinct role to play in society.


So in a nutshell,


Stoics: Align with nature


Plato: Seek eternal truth


Aristotle: Achieve actualisation


So, let’s take some of that wisdom to see how you can discover your purpose. Here are three steps, you curious creature.

 

Reflect on what makes you feel alive. The first step to finding your ultimate goal in life is to reflect on what you truly value.
Assess your skills and abilities. The second step is to assess your skills and abilities. Consider what you are naturally good at and what you enjoy doing.
Test and try. The third step is to take action and experiment with different paths. Growth comes from experience, so step outside your comfort zone and explore new opportunities.

Your ultimate goal is something that drives you and makes you inspired to achieve it.


As simple as this is, it takes time, but it is worth it.

 

Here’s to living up to the light that is within you,

 

Tanya Cross

 

Leadership Coach & The Coaches Coach

Master Certified Demartini Method Facilitator

BAppSoSc (Counselling)

Maximum Growth

 

I’ve been really sad

Life is a series of transformations

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It calls us to honour our truth,  to evolve, and to make the changes that come with it. 


My business partner, Justin and I have recently made the decision to part ways, not out of conflict, but out of alignment with what is most authentic for each of us


His path has led him to be with his family more, and in honouring his values, we both recognise that this transition is the next most perfect step forward for him.


Not all relationships are meant to last forever, and that’s okay.  


Growth often requires us to let go, to move beyond what once was in order to step fully into what is in this version of life. 


If we cling too tightly to what is familiar, we risk stagnation. 


Some people walk with us for a season, while others stay for a lifetime. 


The key is knowing when to hold on and when to let go.


This process has felt like stripping away the layers of identity, letting go of who you think you have to be, and embracing who you truly are. And that takes courage.


It demands that you release expectations from the world around you, let go of attachments and entanglements of who you others want you to be, or what you said you were going to do and trust that your path is unfolding perfectly.


This transition has been difficult. I wandered through the streets of Sydney, lost in thought, trying to make sense of the experience. At times, the weight of it all would hit me unexpectedly, bringing tears that felt as raw as the end of a relationship. 


The dream of building something together, the vision we shared, and the future I had imagined for myself, suddenly, it all shifted.


I was sad for the vision we wanted to create but I know that if it isn’t happening, it isn’t meant to be.


This shift has been a moment of reflection, a reminder that transformation isn’t about doing more, achieving more, or becoming more. 


Justin’s exit has made me realise I, too, need to shed what no longer serves, peeling back the layers of expectation, and return to the essence of who I truly am.


I love mindset work. I love the Demartini Method. I love coaching. 


That’s me. The fire in me to coach is too great for me to stop. 


My focus has been business, but my love is mindset. Seeing the personal insights with people and seeing it impact people’s business. It makes my heart burst. 


So the form is going to change slightly, the vision is unfolding, but the road is still the same.  


What matters most in life is living in alignment with who we truly are. 


At Maximum Growth, we value bold action, and Justin has exemplified that by choosing to exit, and be with his family. 


Our journey has been about honouring what is true, because it is from that space that everything else flows. 


Growth isn’t just about building a business; it’s about deep alignment, about listening to what calls us forward, and having the strength to follow it.


Justin, thank you for stepping into this business, for challenging us to grow, for helping us refine our path, and for ultimately honouring your own. 


I look forward to watching your path evolve and seeing where life takes you. I’ll be cheering you on the sidelines.

 
Thank you for being part of this chapter, for showing up fully, and for all that you have shared.


With love and oodles of gratitude,

 

Tanya Cross

 

Leadership Coach & The Coaches Coach

Master Certified Demartini Method Facilitator

BAppSoSc (Counselling)

Maximum Growth

 

Your Voids Are Driving You

In the pursuit of personal and professional growth, many people overlook one of the most powerful forces guiding their lives, their voids. 

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A void is the gaps, the perceived lacks, the things you didn’t have in the past or still don’t have now. 

 

Instead, they are the very foundation upon which your values and vision are built.

 

We have just finished two weeks of The Void Determination Process™ in our Maximum Growth Community.

 

For me, a new void bubbled up that I hadn’t seen before: the void of relationships. 

 

A void is a deep internal sense of something missing.

 

Yes, nothing is missing but in our experience of the world, we perceive something is missing.

 

What is missing is not random but formed through your life experiences, shaping what you seek and prioritise.

 

For example, I have a void of relationships, and I facilitate (as the value) to build connected and deep relationships with people to fulfil that void.  

 

Your values are formed in direct response to your voids. 

 

Instead of viewing voids as weaknesses, they are shaping your destiny. 

 

What you feel is missing, you strive to fulfil. 

 

This is why no two people have identical values, because everyone has a different set of voids. 

 

A few examples of voids shaping values:

 

Void of stability → Value of financial independence

Void of acceptance → Value of authenticity

Void of guidance → Value of leadership

Void of connection → Value of community

 

Knowing your voids will bring you the greatest fulfilment and impact.

 

Most coaches want to make a difference, they want to impact the world.

 

Your vision is the natural extension of your values in action. 

 

Knowing your voids that define your values, you can intentionally align them with a purpose-driven vision.

 

If you value leadership, your vision might involve empowering others through mentorship or building a movement.

 

If you value financial independence, your vision might involve creating wealth-building strategies for yourself and others.

 

If you value connection, your vision might involve fostering strong relationships, whether in business or personal life.

 

Your voids and values create a personal roadmap. 

 

When you create your vision from this place of deep alignment, you experience greater certainty and impact.

 

Many resist their voids, seeing them as painful reminders of what they lack.

 

But what if those very voids are your greatest gifts?

 

They are pointing you toward your unique purpose, shaping what you care about most, and shifting the direction of your life and business.

 

If you are keen to know your voids, hit me up by responding ‘voids’.

 

With love and sprinkles of inspiration,

 

Tanya Cross

 

Leadership Coach & The Coaches Coach

Master Certified Demartini Method Facilitator

BAppSoSc (Counselling)

Maximum Growth

 

Holding the Vision

This week has been a theme of aligned vision in my one-on-one sessions.

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Clients have wanted to make sure that they are taking aligned action to their big vision.

 

It made me think…

 

There exists a rare breed of individuals on this planet, the visionaries who see beyond the immediacy of their circumstances, beyond the haze of uncertainty, and into another possibility. 

 

Their vision is not one of fleeting ambition but one that deeply resonates with themselves. 

 

It is not merely about achieving an outcome (tick that one-off-the-list attitude) but being congruent with who they are in what drives them and the present. 

 

But a vision, no matter how grand or clear, is merely a dream without the tethering force of action. 

 

One of my Christmas gifts was Seneca, a series of his writings. 

 

He said, “We suffer more in imagination than in reality.” 

 

Many coaches don’t achieve their vision not because their vision is impossible but because they have doubt, attachment to immediate results, or fear of failure. 

 

Your task is not only to hold the vision but to trust the process.

 

Even in the face of uncertainty.

 

Imagine The Vision As A Mirror of the Self

 

To have a vision is to hold a mirror to the deepest aspects of oneself. 

 

The world is constantly reflecting on you. 

 

We have the ability to use a vision as a path to get to know more of ourselves. 

 

But we must distinguish between what is within our control and what is out of our control. 

 

Our vision, our values, and actions belong to us. 

 

The outcome, the timeline, does not. 

 

One of the greatest enemies of vision is attachment to time.

 

We become attached to it when it must unfold. 

 

Human beings are wired to seek security and to cling to known outcomes. 

 

Yet, the very nature of vision requires an embrace of the unknown. 

 

When one clings too tightly to how things should be, they resist the organic unfolding of what could be.

 

There is a paradox in creation: 

 

  • one must care deeply, yet not be consumed; 
  • hold firmly, yet remain open. 

 

A vision is like a tree.

 

It requires roots (values and intention) but must also grow in accordance with the conditions it faces. 

 

The wind may bend its branches, and the seasons may alter its form, but so long as it continues to grow in alignment with its nature, spirit, and the universe, it fulfils its purpose.

 

Trusting the Process 

 

Trust is not passivity. 

 

It is active. 

 

You master the willingness to engage without needing to control. 

 

The visionary moves forward not with desperate force but with deliberate action. 

 

Think Power Versus Force

 

They understand that time and effort compound. 

 

The unseen forces of life conspire in favour of those who remain steady in their course. 

 

Can you hold steady even when life becomes bumpy? 

 

What stands in the way becomes the way.

 

This is not to say that there is no resistance, no moments of doubt. 

 

It’s the internal knowing that your vision is done. 

 

The Legacy of the Visionary

 

It is not a question of if but when

 

The visionary understands that their role is not to force things into being but to continue to align with themselves and their vision. 

 

It takes patience and persistence.

 

Your job is to hold the vision, trust the process, and continue to work on the unseen to be seen.

 

Tanya Cross

 

Leadership Coach & The Coaches Coach

Master Certified Demartini Method Facilitator

BAppSoSc (Counselling)

Maximum Growth

 

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